MAINTAINING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE – POSITIVE FACTORS
Thursday, April 9th, 2009Fortunately, there are still some people left who resist being infected by discontent but know how to remain cheerful in spite of difficulties. I remember a very sick farmer’s wife who suffered from multiple sclerosis and had been paralysed for fourteen years. When she achieved a slight improvement with great effort and was able again to use her arms and eat without help from other people, she was so happy and grateful for the fact that she could cope so well with her still deplorable condition. Whenever I had to face some unpleasant jolt such as cannot be avoided on our bumpy earth my mind always returned to this lady and her quiet contentment.
Especially when we are tired we tend to look at the present, future and past with a negative spirit, but this does not contribute to a contented attitude by any means, nor will it provide the basis for restful relaxation and refreshing sleep. Therefore, we would do better to think of all the positive things that have happened to us and are still going on every day; in other words, we should count our blessings. This attitude will allow a pleasant sense of gratitude to enter our heart and will help to restore the mind and body to a state of well-being. We must admit that every person has sufficient grounds to feel upset, to worry and feel unhappy. However, if you place these negative factors on one side of the scales, then the same quantity of active, positive factors should be placed on the other side in order to balance them. So when you feel depressed and beset by problems, think about all the valuable things you have, the good you have been able to do in your life, your successes, the many gifts nature offers you day by day. All these encouraging memories and experiences are able to fill your heart with gratitude so that life’s burdens, all your complaints, appear small indeed.
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