EPILEPSY AS A PSYCHO-SOCIAL DISEASE: “HOW DO YOU HELP TEENAGERS COPE?”
Monday, July 18th, 2011“Well, what else are they going to do ? I ask teenagers, ‘What are your choices?’ They could go in their rooms, close the door, and never come out again. That would be a choice. If you help people discover alternatives and allow them to make their own choices, eventually they can find the best way to deal with their problems. There really isn’t anything to do but to pick yourself up and go on, is there?”But sometimes things don’t go so well. People with epilepsy have to walk a fine line between hope and reality. Life is not always fair, but what are they going to do about it? You just have to deal with it. Counseling often can be very helpful in enabling people to see that.”I saw Karen every week or two at the beginning, but later, as things got better, our meetings would be less frequent. She would call just to let me know how things were going or if there was a problem. We got through her first date (she learned that girls with epilepsy could date and be attractive, like everyone else). We discussed who you tell about your epilepsy and when. She didn’t tell every date, but when she began to be serious about one person she made certain that he knew about her seizures. She told her close friends and also the coach of her team.”Now Karen is in college. She first went to junior college to prove to her father that she could do it, and then he agreed to let her transfer out-of-state. She is doing very well. She now has a good self-image. Her seizures are under control, although there is still an occasional seizure when she tests the limits.”*223\208\8*